Lucinda, 24, East Sussex asks...

Elizabeth says...

Regard yourself as lucky - you're able to reach an effortless climax in two of the most popular and comfortable positions known to man and womankind. What's more, I can't imagine it would take much effort for you to extend this good fortune to other positions too - just add a little nifty finger work and you should be there. It strikes me that you're able to climax with ease when your clitoris is being stimulated through the friction of intercourse - in other words, as your boyfriend rubs up and down on your vulva, his penis comes into direct contact with your clit and as this stimulation continues, climax becomes inevitable. But when you have sex in other positions - doggy-style, for instance - your clit is left out in the cold, so orgasm suddenly eludes you. When you're making love in these positions, ask your boyfriend to reach down and stroke your clit as he's moving inside you (or do it yourself) and before long I'm sure you'll find yourself hurtling towards a climax in these other positions too. Good luck!

Pillow talk problems

Lucinda, 24, East Sussex asks...

I can only come to an easy climax when I'm on top of my boyfriend or he's on top of me. Every other position fails to hit me the right way, and I just can't reach orgasm. What can we do differently so I can come in more positions?