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| How to tell he's serious about you |
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| By Marged Richards |
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| Man are strange creatures; all over you like body spray one minute, ignoring you the next. If only they were always so clear in communicating their feelings. So - you really, really, like him. Oh okay, let's face it: you want his babies. Does he feel the same? Here are some signs that he does:
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He opens up to you |
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| Men find talking about their feelings notoriously difficult - sharing them with you is a big deal. 'Being able to open up and tell you about himself is a key quality to look for in a man,' says Lynda Field author of Weekend Love Coach (Vermilion). 'I don't mean blabbing about his work and all that stuff, but deeper issues; how he feels about his mum, what major things have happened in his life. All these details are clues to him.' If your man is inviting you under his skin, then there is genuine interest there. Putting his trust in you takes relationship to another level.
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He plans ahead
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| 'I'd been seeing Michael for three months. He was so excited about getting a January bonus, and we went out to celebrate. But I too got a bonus of sorts when he revealed that the first thing he'd done when he'd heard now much he'd got that morning was book us a holiday to Ibiza - in August' says Chloe Lister, 25. 'If he's looking (far) beyond next Saturday night, then that's a very positive sign,' agrees Lynda.
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He takes you to meet the parents |
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| In a culture where infidelity, underage sex and multiple partners no longer raise eyebrows, that tradition of meeting the parents remains a big deal. 'What he's really saying is he's committed, - explains Lynda. He'd hardly take you to meet his mum and dad if he thought you were about to split soon, would he?
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He loves you the way you are
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| 'When takes you as you are, and is happy with the fact that you're not always going to be this gorgeous lip-glossed creature it shows a sign of emotional maturity and an emotional commitment,' says Lynda.
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He supports you
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| A man who's there through thick and thin is without a doubt a man who really cares for you. If he's as ready to uncork the bubbly when you've had a good news as he is to hug you when you're down, then the message is clear: he's serious about you. He has your happiness at heart.
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